Contrary to popular belief, ‘be yourself and only accept people who like you for who you are’ is poor advice. If you up in an Asian culture, you’re told to just focus on school, get good grades in school and get a good job and relationships are going to sort themselves out. That’s not true. […]

Through the years getting into this, I realized that success with women boils down to one key factor. That’s integrity. Not your kind of school integrity, but integrity to push through your social fears. It’s a personal badge of honour you wear daily to push through your fears. You can hire the best dating and […]

How to be vulnerable? What is vulnerability? I get a little squeamish whenever I attempt to explain the concept of vulnerability. You may think it’s some thing you do that’s feminine, soft hearted, sprinkled with fairy dust and unicorns. However, vulnerability isn’t only limited to the emotional aspect of it, but also social vulnerability and […]

The concept of shame is ignored in almost all of dating and relationships advice community. After all, it isn’t exactly ‘good game’ to be talking about your childhood issues as compared to writing lay reports or comparing kiss close ratios. Over the years, forward thinking dating and life coaches have related their dating issues to shame […]

In this interview by Ngee Ann Polytechnic, I make the main argument that dating and relationships are a skillset, just like any other skillsets in life from business, sales, negotations and sports. I also state a position that dating and relationships should be treated like a skillset and that’s my distinction from my dating and […]

The majority of the people you meet aren’t going to be available to you romantically or sexually at any certain point of time. They say dating is a numbers game. That’s true to a certain extent. So how can you better deal with rejection, move forward with time sinks and better your dating lives? How […]