It’s not uncommon to hear that Singaporean women are superficial or materialistic and are only willing to date men who are well off financially. So, are Singaporean girls really superficial and materialistic? Or are they mere projection of our insecurities? The Singapore Cultural Narratives How about looks, popularity, intelligence and social status? Do Singaporean women […]

How to get a girlfriend in Singapore? Or rather, how do you get your ideal girl as your girlfriend? One thing was clear when I started out: if I wanted to date the girls I desired, I had to do something about it, I had to become someone worth dating myself. That’s the simple and […]

You can argue that the majority of dating and relationship problems are a boundary issue in one way or another. Years ago, I was enrapt in a relationship that felt great at times and just dirt shit other times. It was like a rollercoaster ride. It was only years later after knowing the concept of […]

You see her sitting across the table of Starbuck having a quiet cup of coffee. She’s dressed casually, in a purple-pink dotted dress that spells classy. She’s attractive. She’s also alone. The hundreds of possibilities run through your head. You want to start a conversation with her and potentially get her number. However, you freeze […]

Countless of us walk the streets and have hundreds of girls and women who fit our physical criteria as a potential romantic partner walk by us. Yet, how many of us end up not nothing anything, day after day, months after months, and years. Let’s be honest here, you and I are guilty of letting […]

Over the years, I figured that Singapore’s dating culture is unique and flawed in it’s own special kind of way. Singapore is an Asian cultured society that is sandwiched between Westernized and Asian values simultaneously. This weird sandwich often results in a clash of values, beliefs in our dating lives. I’m a Singaporean male bred and […]

I talk about the cost of success such as. burning bridges, finding like minded individuals and how I got started reading dating advice and developing my passion for psychology. Interview with Yellow Pages: