Hi, I’m Marcus, founder of MarcusNeo.Com.
Over the last 6 years, I have successfully helped multiple clients of different ages from students to professionals wrestle control of their interactions with women.
I am proud to be featured in multiple media platforms from GoodMenProject to E27.co.
I also had the good fortune to do a commentary on love and societal expectations on ChannelNewsAsia:
I started off as a depressed young man whose girlfriend broke up with him just before military enlistment in Singapore.
I remembered I couldn’t do anything…
I had my Nokia phone in my hands (read: the one they only let you use during your BMT days)… I smashed in her number and she wouldn’t pick up. That was it. It was over. I spent the next 2 years depressed, lonely, in a slump and painted myself a victim of love.
You’re probably here because you were in a similar position as I was 6 years ago. Something went wrong, and you had to find solutions to get yourself out of that position.
So that led me down to a road of obsession. The obsession to understand social skills and psychology.
This obsession led to purpose and passion. I started a blog documenting my journeys and slowly but surely, one enquiry come in another after and passion soon started to look like purpose.
It’s amazing how far I’ve come.
Looking back, I was an unmotivated student in my earlier academic days to where I am today, a relentless entrepreneur, successfully helping tens of clients succeed in dating and relationships.
You see, it wasn’t always like that, I started off as a depressed young man whose girlfriend broke up with him just before military enlistment in Singapore… over text.
I remembered I couldn’t do anything…
I had my Nokia phone in my hands (read: the one they only let you use during your BMT days)… I smashed in her number and she wouldn’t pick up.
That was it. It was over.
I spent the next 2 years as a bald NSF as a depressed, lonely slump and painted myself a victim.
You’re probably here because you may be in a similar position as I was 6 years ago. Something went wrong and you are looking to find solutions to get yourself out of that position.
So that led me down to a road of obsession. The obsession to understand social skills and female psychology, behavioural change and a multitude of other nerdy topics.
I went from a heartbroken NSF to a world travelled individual… delving into one hedonic pleasure after another. (read on and you’ll see a couple of snippets.)
For a couple of years… I started a blog documenting my learning processes. Slowly but surely, one email came in after another and passion soon started to look like purpose.
This obsession led to purpose and passion. I started helping men from all over the world, in Singapore to date women they truly desire.
Here’s the truth: decades of psychological research that show that relationships contribute a huge portion to our day to day happiness.
It’s an area of your life that you need to get GOOD at.
Relationship problems are real.
If you’re human, you probably once felt depressed after a breakup or a rejection. You may find yourself not distracted from important daily tasks like your studies or your work.
That’s because you don’t understand the psychology of dating and relationships.
It doesn’t end there.
If you’re in University, your grades may take a nose dive. If you’re working, you may have required to take no pay leave to figure out your emotions. I sure as hell couldn’t concentrate during my military days after my ex-girlfriend dumped me!
You may even have become a loner amongst your friends and they may have left you alone because you were moppy about it.
Some of us may feel down when you can’t really get the girl that you really desire.
These problems are real… and let’s be honest here… your friends don’t really talk about it either.
Take Melvin for an example, he was the typical Singaporean nice guy… until he worked with me.
Melvin is one of my clients that got rapid results in this area of his life.
‘Marcus has taught me alot on the fundamentals. Marcus helped me highlight my blindspots. I went to a single events, met a couple of women. I conversed with one of them, shared something about myself and within a couple of minutes, I got her number and managed to successfully ask her out on the date.’
– Melvin, IT Consultant
I’m sure that one of the most common problems you’re facing is being unable able to date a woman that you really desire.
I’m not talking about the ones that you swipe right on Tinder and they show up way below your expectations…
I’m talking about the ones that make you feel nervous and yet excited when you’re with her.
Yes, the ones that make you actually feel something for.
Some of you may be stuck in a dead end relationship, letting it drag on for years and it’s secretly killing you inside.
Or maybe you spent your entire life focusing on University grades or your career and you saw your friends getting attached through the years, one by one and you convince yourself that you didn’t really care. Only for these issues to come rushing back to you today.
Let’s be honest, that what all of us Singaporeans do: study hard and expect everything else to work out.
I understand it’s not entirely your fault, after all… if you’re an introvert that prefers playing computer games, staying indoors, you probably didn’t get many opportunities to interact with women.
You can take a leap of faith… as I did years ago… and stop feeling disappointed for not focusing on this area of your life back then.
Let’s be real here, the majority of us Singaporeans aren’t equipped with the right social skillsets to take control of this area of our lives.
You see, I wasn’t exactly a huge nerd that couldn’t socialize with anyone, however, I was OKAY with people and didn’t really get on the wrong side of people.
However, I figured early on that if you’re nobody, nobody is going to fancy you at the end of the day.
I’m sure you’re a nice person with lots of friends. However, have you found yourself in a position when you finally confessed to a girl you fancy… and she awkwardly tells you that she only sees you as a friend?
So here’s the thing with a lot of Asian (read: Singaporean men): your parents probably told you to be a ‘good boy’ and told you not to interact with people or talk to strangers since young.
In your social interactions, you may find yourself too sensitive to rejection: you’re afraid that others are going to start gossiping about it or make fun of you.
The risk of rejection is more painful than not trying at all. You rationalize… it’s better to stick to your own friends and all the good women are already taken.
If you’re talking to just one girl, you may worry too much about it. You think: ‘If I took a risk, I may lose her’, finding yourself in an extremely needy position.
Or maybe you can’t just seem to get her to reply you on the text. Even if you do, they reply with one sentence boring answer that leaves you thinking if they are ‘playing hard to get’.
Or even if you do, you stare at her blankly and you fail time and time again to take the interactions beyond a platonic level.
One of the BIGGEST problems you probably face is always waiting for someone that knows someone to introduce you to that someone.
If you’re in your later twenties on thirties, your friends may be in long term relationships and you can’t go out with friends to meet women. Or even worst, what if all your friends have dead-end social lives and call you ‘superficial’ and ‘fake’ for wanting to you to expand your dating opportunities?
Ultimately, you’re not solving the root of the problem: the ability to control your interactions with women.
I’m sure you found yourself thinking to yourself: ‘that person seems nice’. Then you end up telling yourself ‘she’s probably with someone else’. You then walk away with excuses and fear of judgment from others.
Or maybe you don’t want to date your colleagues. You don’t want to ‘shit where you eat’. Or maybe, you just came off a horrendous long term relationship, perhaps a divorce even and you can’t seem to get your feet up. Or maybe you have tried some slimy pick up artist methods and creep-ed everyone around you out…
There are tons of reasons. However, don’t let them hold you back…
Take Zhi Hao for an example, after 37 years of his life, he finally said screw this, got coaching and he’s now pursuing comic in Japan… and able to build lasting connections with women, or just about anyone in any part of the world.
‘Before I came on to the program, I wasn’t conscious about many of my problems. I had to understand that many of things I do wasn’t a good way to project confidence. My interactions with women improved a lot during our coaching program. I also fixed my appearance with the help of Marcus.’
– Zhi Hao, Engineer
If you’re swiping right on Tinder or paying thousands of dollars for questionable matchmaking dates with dating agencies, I’m pretty sure you have once thought that you’re playing way below what you’re capable of.
I’m pretty sure you do.
Cause I did that for years as well. Or maybe sometimes, you see other couples in relationships and you think things are just not happening for me. You end up feeling hurt or inferior to others. I understand that feeling, I have been there.
If you are like me, you probably want similar things as I do.
You want a life where you can go to a bar on a Saturday night where you can confidently talk to that gorgeous lady beside you. You open your mouth and introduce yourself. She smiles back at you. You reach out your hand and shake their hand. You then confidently tell them about your night. They listen intently. You then calmly put your hand around them, and they sidle up right beside you, their eyes fixed on yours, hanging on every word of yours.
You’ll also want to able to bring her on business trips, events and dinners. You and them, walking hand in hand, through the red carpet of an event, secretly stealing eyes and glances from everyone around you.
Or maybe you’re looking to confidently to be able to talk to anyone, anywhere of your choice. Imagine having the rock solid confidence so much so that even if she looks at your weird and completely ignores you, you’ll merely laugh it off and go meet someone else.
Imagine the day you are not only able to date your ideal girl, but you are also able to strike a conversation with anyone, anywhere and are able to give a woman a sense that you’re trustworthy and mature, even if it was a non-romantic relationship.
You see, I thoughts they are all once impossible for me.
I proved myself wrong and many others.
Here’s the truth: You can take control of your romantic interactions with women.
If you haven’t noticed by now, it’s not just about getting the women or relationships that you desire.
It’s about long term behavioural change and self-actualization.
Take billionaire, Warren Buffet quote for an example, he has outrightly stated:
“If you can’t communicate, it’s like winking at a girl in the dark — nothing happens. You can have all the brainpower in the world, but you have to be able to transmit it”
– CEO, Berkshire Hathaway, Warren Buffet
That’s the importance of communication skills.
Today, I am the managing director of my own company and have had the good pleasure to work alongside top-performing CEOs, directors and entrepreneurs throughout my life.
So, how did I get here?
I put 80% of my success down to the ability to communicate my ideas eloquently.
So here’s an opportunity for you to join me, on this life-changing journey not only towards transforming all of your relationships, but also attaining the lifestyle and freedom that you want.
‘The program opened up my eyes to different perspectives that can be applied through business, relationships and all of life.’
– Darren, Pharmacist Executive
In a world of information, Youtube videos, theories and all of that, how can you filter through all of that, cut through the noise and get results in the shortest time possible?
That’s right, that’s called INSIGHT.
That’s the purpose of getting a mentor.
He’s able to tell you what to do with specific pieces of information, at any given point of time to help you accelerate your desired outcome in dating, relationships and your life.
Through the years of prospecting hundreds of clients, I noticed are two types of people in general.
#1 – The Procrastinators
These people believe in ‘tomorrow’. They either are afraid to take action or just decide that it’s something that can be delayed for another time. These people just end up cruising month-after-month, year-after-year and end up in the same spot that they started in. No progress, not any closer to their goals.
Time cost lives my friend, not money. Time is the most valuable resource all of us have.
#2 – The Smart Ones
These people are hungry and clear about what they want. They could probably figure these things out on their own if they had the right guidance or enough time.
They know that they can avoid all that heartache and mistakes by learning from mistakes others have already made.
They believe in heavily investing in themselves and their knowledge because that is the best investment you can make when you just start out.